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Showing posts with label Self improvement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self improvement. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 29, 2023

Discover what older parents expect from their children and their role in ensuring their parents' inner and outer wellbeing.



Learn why having a son is important, a child's duty, and how to prepare for the moment of death. Read on for insightful guidance on honoring and caring for aging parents and living a life with purpose.

As parents age, they often have certain expectations from their children. In many cultures, having a son is considered important as it is believed that he will be the one to carry on the family name and traditions after the parents pass away. Additionally, sons are expected to perform religious ceremonies and rituals for the parents after their death.

However, it is important to understand that a child's duty is not just limited to, fulfilling their parents' expectations after their death. As parents grow older, they may require help and support from their children in their day-to-day life as well. This includes taking care of their physical and emotional needs, reminding them of important things, and making sure that they are comfortable and happy in their old age.

It is important for children to understand that their parents have done a lot of them throughout their life, and it is their responsibility to repay them by being there for them in their old age. This may involve making certain sacrifices, such as taking time off work to spend with them or providing financial assistance if needed. It is also important for children to communicate with their parents and understand their needs and desires, so that they can provide the appropriate support.

When it comes to the moment of death, it is important for children to ensure that their parents are at peace and not filled with fear or anxiety. If parents have led a life solely focused on the physical world, they may be filled with terror at the moment of death. Children can help them prepare for this moment by introducing them to spiritual practices and teachings, which can provide comfort and solace.


In conclusion, as children, it is our duty to take care of our parents in their old age and ensure that they live a happy and comfortable life. This involves fulfilling their expectations after their death, but more importantly, providing support and assistance in their day-to-day life. It is important to communicate with them and understand their needs, and to introduce them to spiritual practices that can provide comfort and peace at the moment of death. Let us honor our parents and repay their love and sacrifices by being there for them in their old age.

Monday, October 26, 2020

How to deal with a breakup alone ?


Learn how the power of memory impacts our ability to move on after a breakup in this Alpha-minds blog. From genetic to karmic memory, we explore how memories shape who we are and the importance of moving forward in a positive way. Gain insights into how to deal with memories and bring integrity to your spirit to fulfil the direction in which you wish to go in your life.


How to Move on after breakup?

Moving on after a breakup is not an easy thing to do. It can be one of the most painful experiences in life. The memories, emotions, and attachment can make it difficult to let go. But the truth is, life is all about change and growth. Moving on after a breakup is a part of that growth. It is necessary to let go of the past and embrace the present.


Our body has a tremendous amount of memory. There is evolution memory, genetic memory, karmic memory, mindful level of memory, senseless levels of memories, and articulate level of memories. This memory is on many different points. Our body is carrying a very complex mechanism of memory. It is easy when you know how. Experience, how to go the steps, how to go down the steps- it looks very simple. But it's not simple, it's very complex. Your body has to remember. Otherwise, it cannot move up and go down so simply.



Every day we are imbibing so much memory. And this memory, if there is a certain sort of congruence to this memory, if there is a certain kind of alignment to this memory, this memory will become productive. If there is a certain degree of chaos in this memory, then you may know everything, but this memory will work against you because it's incompatible and opposing within itself.

When we invest our thoughts, emotions, and perhaps even our body in a relationship, there is a profound sense of memory about that. If we make a lot of contradictory memory in our system, we will see life will tell later that we have everything but feel like we have nothing.

The question itself of why a breakup matters is coming because it matters. If it didn't matter, we could have just blanked out about it and go on like an old pair of shoes. But it matters because we invested our thoughts, emotions, and perhaps even our body. Once we have invested these three things, there is a profound sense of memory about that.

Moving on after a breakup is typical for everyone because it is necessary to let go of the past and embrace the present. It is confusing and joyless to hold on to something that is no longer serving us. We must keep moving to avoid becoming a loose spirit. We must bring some integrity to this, intellectual integrity, emotional integrity, and physical integrity to our spirit.

It is essential to understand the mechanism of what we have been gifted before involving ourselves in anything. We must consider where we want to take this and see what are the different impacts it will have upon us. Whether this will play well in this life or work against life, we must look at. Otherwise, all significant things will become waste.

If we don't move on, we will become a loose spirit. Loose, I am not applying the word "loose" in terms of morality. I am only talking about loose in terms of not being able to fulfil the direction in which we wish to go in our life.

In conclusion, moving on after a breakup is necessary to let go of the past and embrace the present. Our body has a tremendous amount of memory, and it is essential to bring some integrity to our spirit. It is necessary to understand the mechanism of what we have been gifted before involving ourselves in anything. Otherwise, all significant things will become waste. Remember, when we were born, we came alone, and when we die, we will go alone. So, it is essential to make the most out of the time we have and move on after a breakup.